Marital bliss is a wonderful experience meant to last “till death do us part.” Sadly, only a few marriages last longer than 10 years with the couple going their separate ways, what more a lifetime. This is especially true for showbiz marriages among celebrities. But, against all odds, a couple of “celebrities” recently celebrated 22 years of marital bliss. Maryanne and Tommy Pilling are the UK’s first couple with Down Syndrome to tie the knot.
You can just imagine the criticism and cynicism their decision to marry received two decades ago in a church in Essex. Many thought it was a bad idea, and that their marriage would not last. The idea of two people with the condition of Down Syndrome marrying and living together was unheard of. How can two people care for each other and even raise a family if they have difficulty taking care of themselves?
Well, “love knows no bounds,” as they say, and the couple proved just that after celebrating 22 years of marriage, and living together in their own home, although Maryanne’s sister Lindi Newman and her family live next door to help out in case they need assistance. And their love gets stronger. They thank those who believed in them, particularly Maryanne’s mother, who went through a lot of negative criticism when she agreed to the wedding.
“My wedding was the best day of my life. I was shocked when Tommy proposed but I didn’t have to think twice about saying yes,” Maryanne was quoted as saying. “Tommy and I never argue. I love my husband very much. He is my best friend,” she adds. The couple re-enacted from dirty dancing their first dance to celebrate their anniversary. Even with lots of people in attendance, it appeared the couple was oblivious of the guests and danced sweetly as if they were the only ones there.
Maryanne’s sister explains, “Maryanne had dreamed about a big white wedding since she was a little girl and that’s exactly what she had. It was a beautiful day.” She continues, “When they walk down the street holding hands they make a statement but in a good way. Some people stare, they assume people with Down Syndrome and learning difficulties can’t get married. But we also get so many lovely messages from people who are inspired by their story.”
A Facebook page dedicated to the couple is managed by Maryanne’s sister Lindi. It narrates the life of the couple with wonderful pictures showing them lovingly enjoying each other’s company. Lots of people wish them well. “People worried about their own children or grandchildren with Down Syndrome get hope from Maryanne and Tommy’s story, hope that their children can also fall in love and live happily ever after,” Lindi adds.
Truly one love story for the books. The adoration, patience, and understanding they have for each other makes you wonder why some “normal” couples can’t seem to cherish their own marriages. Unconditional love from a couple with Down Syndrome conditions.
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